When it comes to sex work — or any work, really — establishing regular client/worker relationships is common. This is a normal occurrence which benefits both parties. Consistent sales are good for business, while the familiarity and comfortability of maintaining an ongoing and trusted connection is a plus for the client.
It is very important to me that my clients feel comfortable enough to communicate with me without fear of being judged. However, building trust of any kind, takes time. I would not expect anyone to trust me with their deepest desires, right off the bat. Now — sometimes I am graced with an open book — and that’s awesome! I’m always eager to entertain even the wildest fantasies! So long as we both feel comfortable, there typically won’t be an issue.
There are some instances, however, where one participant may become too comfortable in the transactional relationship, and disregard simple ethics and boundaries made by the other. This becomes apparent, when they:
Make sudden & unreasonable demands.
Continuously ask for private/personal information to obtain contact outside of business settings, especially after they were denied the first few times.
Become needy, clingy, and/or jealous of your other business relationships.
Become increasingly and uncomfortably adamant about meeting in person.
Threaten, stalk, harass, etc.
Make attempts to sabotage your other business relationships.
There are many behaviors that signify an unhealthy Client/Operator relationship.
Don’t get me wrong; it is normal to grow attached to any sexual partner, even if it’s transactional. After all, we are only human. Feelings tend to happen. That is why it is important to establish boundaries, and stick to them!
We can avoid any confusion by standing firm on our mutual understanding; I truly care about my clients and I will forever strive to meet their requests, but please note the following:
The services we provide here at Phone Gems are for entertainment purposes only.
We will NOT meet clients in person under any circumstance. Period.
We are not required to share personal or any self identifying information with clients.
Harassment, stalking, violence, doxxing, etc. against any site participant is prohibited.
Phone Gems will always aim to please our site members and visitors. We will value your time and appreciate you, fully.
Ruby Reiki
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